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I have been stalked many times and once I was attacked with a weapon but the police did not arrest them because they were a stranger. They sent me a pamphlet in the mail about how they committed a crime but they need their name to charge them with a misdemeanor with like a $200 fee…

I’m sorry but I’m a type B but I keep smiling about what your saying But it’s not so black and white as you say The problem is that I got every emotion but not at the right time. I now know what happens and try to regulate I see what happens so I stay away from things what makes me tick. Stays difficult

Thank you so much

I need a video about the extreme delusion these people have where they manage to make you the abuser and they truly believe it

From watching this video, I learned while a man might have a desire to help a former partner but in doing so, he will not only open himself to more emotional abuse but will ruin any chance of finding a health loving relationship with a new partner in the process.

I'm supposed to be in the smaller subset, yet still having a hard time getting over my discard from a pwBPD after a year. I'm trying everything NOT to think about her and let her go yet the thoughts of her keep popping up in my head... Gives me a hard time to attract new relationship possibilities... I also have a hard time recalling all the nasty things i recieved as if my brain shut those memories out. Is there a way to access that? That would help a lot to let her go.

I’m curious to know whether it’s often the case that disordered women are love bombing as a tactic, or whether they’re acting out of what feels like genuine attraction to them.

I've been looking at videos about narcissism and abuse for a while now after having finally found a therapist who validated my revelation that my wife is an abuser. I have never felt the urge to respond to one until now. During the pandemic when my wife exploded in rage at me for using the washing machine at the wrong time I called a lawyer to figure out how to get out of this nightmare. When she sketched out what I would owe in support my first thought was: how is my wife going to live on that? Aside from the emotional manipulation one of the biggest impediments to breaking free of this insanity is my feeling that it is my responsibility to take care of her in spite of the fact that she is a talented, educated, experienced professional who has just never been able to hold down a job for more than a few years at a time. I'm looking forward to the rest of this series, thanks.

When I grew up my mother didn't work. But I did. I was giving my money to her to help out. What parent doesn't make an effort to provide for their children and decide living off child support is enough. Not to mention the endless shit talking about my father for my entire adolescents. Turns out my father was a hard working successful person because of it. Honestly this whole system is designed to make men victims of court abuse disguised as law. I was never allowed to see my father or talk to him. And if I ever asked I was harassed with false allegations and devaluing of him. He was the one that was stable. All my mother did was smoke cigarettes all day in perpetual victimhood.

OMG!! Especially when it comes to compulsive shopping. Asking for money then saying they are all set. Then 2 hours later they ask for more. Then they threaten to never speak to you again. The worst is they dress like a wealthy woman but also a little to revealing at 48 and want to be the center of attention . They claim they want the people they are meeting to think that are wealthy . So you say get a real job to help support us and they randomly just smack you by hitting you open fisted in the face. This is awful. I am anxious and depressed because of this bullying !! I think she is BPD and Bipolar as well as a sociopath.

I have had two women I used to date who used to call and hang up on me on nights they suspected I would be going out. I would catch them driving by my place. One even dated a friend of mine (the friend said he always had a crush on her, but I warned him) He told me they broke up after she called out my name while they were having sex. This same woman would habitually try to make me jealous. I got tired of it and left her. She then called me a couple weeks later and told me she was pregnant. I was ready to quit college and get a job, but her best friend told me she as lying. One night I noticed the police and an ambulance outside my dorm. My friend and I were coming back in the dorm and we heard my ex’s voice. She was distraught and rambling. We then realized the ambulance and police were for her. They were all in the lobby and we heard her repeating my name. It was weird and unsettling. Another lady would call all the time and hang up. When I would *69, she always had her number blocked (*82?). Anyway, one day she slipped up and the phone rang back. She kept hanging up. She then answered “why are you calling me?”. Told her to stop calling, but she changed the subject like nothing happened. I moved and she lost track of me for a while. I started dating my current wife, and she managed to find my number again and show her face (we lived in a very populated area, so it was no coincidence). It was very unsettling. Anyway, my wife and I moved to another state. Was talking to a female coworker and stalking came up. One female coworker said that she calls and drives by ex’s places, and said that is not stalking. I think these things happen to a lot of people.

I am not male SIR. Stop showing up in my newsfeed SIR.

Great work Tara...

Do you still offer services? My wife does this and has for years. She’s broken my finger and teeth. Largely people don’t believe me and I am afraid to seek outside help lest she just blame me. I’ve got video and all. Police have just said well what did you do to cause it?

My lawyer screwed me over right at the end and took my ex’s side. She was shocked when I got temporary primary custody after the first court date; should have seen it then…

Spot on, as always!

You’re reading it, like a teleprompter. Hard for me to take you genuine but I stuck it out and it was awesome, Thank you With our societal issues you mentioned, it’s called the “gender AGENDA” all part of the narrative

This video needs to be spread about more….sad truths

The real abuse isn't what was done. It isn't the gaslighting from your partner that it "wasn't that bad... It's Society telling you're a wimp for even talking about it. Noone cares.

You finally bought a good microphone 👍

I’ve missed watching these, thanks. Feeling more validated already.

So true.

This helped me understand my Dad's "co-dependent pain" with my Mom in the 1950s and 1960s. There is a romantic view that those times were better for men but weren't. Getting a divorce was ten times more difficult and divorce alimony could continue forever. There was a lot more social and religious shame to add. As two domestic lawyer friends -- both women -- told me, always have a good prenup.

Narcissists deserve to be completely alone all the time, for all of time itself. Wait no, better yet, they should all be with one another, forever, on an island, one uping each other endlessly.

Truthful Content.....

Totally agree! Important content!!